Frequently Asked Questions

How can I contact you?

Please see the "Meet Courtney" page. I prefer enquires via TEXT messages: +61 487 714 479. I always try to answer enquires as soon as I possibly can. Generally, I will reply during my normal work hours - weekdays 8am-6pm, occasional weekends. Please be patient as I do not have an assistant and receive a high volume of messages. This is one reason why advance bookings are highly recommended. DO NOT CALL me as I will not answer.

Where are you located?

Perth: My private incall is located near East Perth. It is discrete, modern, spacious, and secure. Fresh linens, shower, towels, men's toiletries, and beverage provided. There is easy street parking. A private security firm patrols the area reguarly. When touring capital cities, my incall location is at 4 & 5 star hotels in the CBD or just outside for convenient parking. Regional WA: Upscale hotel just outside the CBD.

What are your rates?

Please see "Experiences" page. Generally, my services are offered as a packaged rate. Please bring the total amount in correct bills for the service and inclusions you have requested. After I greet you please pay the fee as it is awkward when I have to ask. Regular clients - please do not ask for discounts as this is rude and I will decline future appointments with you.

When are you available?

Generally in Perth, I am available weekdays 10am-6pm. Please make appointments in advance. Outside these hours and weekends I may be available but you must make the appointment in advance with a deposit. On tours I am generally available between 9am - 9pm and appointments outside these hours may be possible with advance notice. Scarlet Blue or Twitter may show that I am "Available Now" that means I am literally available at that moment. However, proper contact etiquette still applies. I post my weekly schedule in advance on twitter @courtneymassage and regularly update my Scarlet Blue and Escorts & Babes profile.

What's included in the massage / GFE?

Please click on the "Experiences" page for more information.

Do you do Outcalls?

Outcalls are only offered for GFE appointments of 2 hrs or longer. I will only attend outcalls to hotels within the CBD and they must not be a "medi hotel".

What's your personality like?

I am super warm, bubbly, and kind hearted. I maintain a professional exterior before we met to encourage geniune enquiries only. However, upon being greeted, you will instantly feel comfortable when you see my big smile and feel my warm touch.

Do you offer discounts?

Asking this is simply rude. My rates are set firmly. Longer appointments already factor in a discount. If you are a student or can't afford my services, please save up for an appointment or search for a provider within your budget.

What do you find attractive?

Good smell is a big turn on. A freshly showered man, who uses deoderant and washes EVERY part of himself thoroughly will instantly get bonus points from me. I understand you may be nervous, don't forget this is a fun experience! A genuine smile and light banter helps break the ice. Humor is sexy. Also - when is the last time you clipped your toe nails? A pedicure goes a long way.... In regards to grooming, being smooth and trimming your pubic hair will give you more sensation when I am teasing you. Excessive back and chest hair makes it difficult to glide and slide.

Do you do doubles?

Yes in states that this is legal. I have many friends and playmates in the industry for a "four hands massage" or "threesome". Please be sure to organise these experiences in advance. A deposit is required.

Do you see couples?


Can I take you on a date?

Yes! Social date rates start from $250 per hour in a public venue. I am warm natured and make great company. I like doing active things or even something simple like having a glass of wine together. I get asked on a lot of dates but please respect that my time should be compenstated. This keeps the personal & professional lines from blurring. I will not invade your personal life and I ask that you respect mine as well. If you request uncompenstated time from me, unfortunately that will be the last time we communicate as you have crossed a boundary.

What kind of massage do you offer?

Clients often say "Wow that is different! I've never experienced that before!" A massage by Courtney is definitely a 100 % erotic experience. I use a blend of techniques that will vary based upon the individual's needs and requests. I will use tantra / lingam massage on your groin and "sacred spot". My body massage style is most similar to Swedish massage which means that I use gliding motions, kneading, and circular pressure. Please inform me of any injuries prior as I incorporate lots of my signature body slides all over your back and front. I do erotic massage for the purpose of relaxation - not therapy. I am not a medical professional. I do not offer deep tissue, remedial massage or anything related to physical adjustments. I cannot perform hard pressure massage on you.

Do you enjoy your work?

I love what I do! My favourite part of my job is making people feel good. There's a complete transformation from when someone first walks through my door to when they leave - usually a bit shaky haha but always with a big smile. Sometimes it takes a while to process the experience, but I love receiving a thank you text and the majority of my clients make another appointment. I'm blessed with lovely regulars that make me smile everyday.

Do you like gifts?

I sure do! It is never expected but always appreciated. I like flowers- very obvious when you visit my incall which is full of plants. Ecoya candles and diffusers, bottles of wine, lingerie, or gift cards are appreciated. Basically anything pretty or that smells nice or tastes good I will like it! It is easy to make me happy and put a smile on my face.

Should I tip?

Tipping is not expected but appreciated. I create my own rates. If you feel like tipping on top of the rate - thank you - I really appreciate it. Please know that I use that tip money to pay it forward. I always tip my hair stylist, nail tech, barista, driver, etc. to spread the good vibes in the service industry!

I have never seen a Sex Worker before - what do I do?

Good on you for taking the leap into this wonderful world! It's totally normal to feel nervous or overwhelmed. The #1 piece of advice that my industry peers constantly recommend is READ THE AD! Take the time to research me / your chosen provider. Read my profile, look through my website and social media. Chances are your question will be answered on this website. If you still have concerns or need clarification please ask in a text. Make contact via text. Please follow the contact etiquette and let me know it's your first time. Here's a template: "Hi Courtney, my name is Mark and I am an Engineer from Perth. I saw your profile on Scarlet Blue and I'd like to make a booking however it's my first time and I'm a little nervous. Are you available on sometime on Tuesday afternoon between 1pm - 4pm for an hour GFE?" I will reply with my availability. I will ask for a small deposit to confirm your appointment. At least an hour before your appointment I will send you my address with parking instructions included. It's easy to make a good first impression; be on time, polite, and hygienic. Have the correct amount ready and please give it to me once you arrive. I will direct you to the shower. Make sure you use hot water and soap. Focus on underarms, groin including under testicles, and anus. After your shower we will enjoy your chosen service together. At anytime feel free to communicate with open honesty about how you are feeling, if you need a break, or what you would like to experience. After the service, you will have another shower, get dressed, gather your belongs, and have a warm departure. My service is completely non-judgmental. I do not judge people or discriminate against others based on appearance, age, size, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, kinks, or any area. Treat me with respect and I will treat you in kind ten fold. I really appreciate testimonials (link on MEET COURTNEY) Testimonials are a free way to show your support of my business. I will not initiate contact further unless requested to do so. Your privacy and discretion are assured.

How do I leave a review?

I appreciate when clients take the time to leave me a review. You can click on the "Write a Testimonial" button on the "About Courtney" page or go to my Scarlet Blue profile "Courtney Masseuse Perth" to write a review. I also appreciate a quick text post appointment that lets me know if you enjoyed the session or if you have any feedback. I always seek improvement and I value your opinion.

Do I have to use my real name when making a booking?

I would prefer your booking enquire to include a name that you will actually react to. Whether that is your given name, alias, nickname, name only used for bookings - whichever name you have texted me - I will refer to you as until instructed otherwise. I value your privacy and discretion and I ask that you do the same for me. I would not be able to thrive in this industry if I was not 100% discrete.

I saw you in public - can I say "Hi"?

Please do not approach me in public and I will not approach you. This prevents any awkwardness for both parties. I have an active social life which often includes outdoor sports, going out to bars, restaurants, and attending events, concerts, etc. I'm a normal person just like you! I realise that Perth is a relatively small city and I may bump into my clientele. Do not text me if you spot me in the wild, do not mention any sightings during an appointment as doing so is a breach of privacy.

Are your photos real?

Of course YES! They are genuinely me, my body, and my aesthetic. There is some skin editing to remove any identifying marks for my privacy. I also hide the majority of my face for privacy. There is no purpose for me to post fake photos as that would waste my time and create negative publicity. I invest a lot into my photo shoots which are done at least once or twice per year. I post selfies weekly on Twitter. Scarlet Blue & Escorts and Babes have verified my photos as well. I also have videos posted on those sites.

Send me a selfie.

No. That is a rude and entitled command. I do not send my photos out - there are many methods to verify my appearance and services. Usually enquiries asking for a selfie are from timewasters who have no intention of ever making a booking. These sad people are photo collectors. It is not unusual for photos to be stolen by other workers, agencies, scrapper sites / directories and used for fake ads. Perhaps you have been "catfished" / "bait and switched" before or had a bad experience. Do your own due diligence.

What will you wear when you greet me?

Massage - the service is done nude however I usually greet clients in a mini dress or casual wear. Specific requests for lingerie or other looks will incur an additional charge. Lingerie strip tease is an additional +$50. GFE Incall - I have an extensive lingerie collection and often I wear beautiful lacy or satin lingerie with a matching robe. Sometimes I wear a sexy dress and I am open to requests for specific colors, a casual look, gym wear, or office wear at no additional charge if the items are readily available. GFE Outcall - I will dress discretely in a modest dress or business attire. If you have a specific request please provide the funds so I can purchase for our appointment or bring the items with you and I am happy to model it. My size is 12D bra, M suspender, 12 bottoms, Tall stockings, size 39 shoes. Foot Fetish - I offer a choice of leather stilettos or open toe strappy sandals.

What type of oil do you use?

I use a premium professional grade unscented oil which is water dissoluble. The oil contains a combination of jojoba, grape seed, & vitamin E. It will come off after a hot shower. Depending on your body size I use about 50-100ml per hour session. You may feel like "OMG she is using a lot of oil!" A certain amount is needed to do body slides and gliding motions. The oil does not leave a residue and will not stain your clothing. It is nut free, paraben free, and will not cause any allergic reactions. Similarly, I offer a paraben free, unscented body wash suitable for sensitive skin. If you require specific lotion, oil, shower gel or any other products, feel free to bring those along to the appointment.

What type of clients do you like? Do you refuse any type?

I do not discriminate against any type of people that make a polite enquiry. Race / ethnicity, gender, age (must be 18+), marital status, size, body shape, etc. do not concern me. I ONLY accept clients who are polite, hygienic, have read and comprehended my services, are respectful and not boundary pushers. Ability to communicate clearly in English is a must. Health is EXTREMELY important to me! If you have a cold / illness, an active skin condition, any open scratches, cuts, or wounds, fresh ink, STIs, etc - DO NOT book an appointment with me! I reserve the right to deny my services to anyone who is not hygienic, is unwell, rude, or I deem a health and safety risk. I do not accept clients who are under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol. If you do not met my clientele criteria yet proceed to make a booking without disclosing, I will keep your deposit / booking fee and refuse service. * I am unable to see people with limited mobility, serious injuries, or impairments as I do not have specific disability training.

Do you tour? Can you come to my city?

I do not have plans to tour in 2021 due to travel concerns surrounding COVID-19 and potential border closures.

Do you watch the clock?

I am not considered a "clock watcher" however I have excellent time management skills as there are many things I like to explore during our time together. I set a timer at the beginning of our session. If our session is an hour, you have paid for an hour of my time which includes showering before and after as well as the session time. If you have not reached completion after that timer goes off, I may generously allow complimentary extra time for you to reach climax. However, my services are not "goal" based and achieving orgasm sometimes doesn't happen for various reasons. It is rude to take advantage of time without compensation and will not help your chances of getting another appointment. If you choose to book a short appointment of 30 min that will include undressing, showering, service, clean up shower, getting dressed, etc. Do not complain of feeling "rushed" as it is your choice to book a short session. I have magic hands, but not magical abilities to bend the laws of time and space in order to complete a service "checklist".

What is bad etiquette? I am new to this.

I find that clients who exhibit the below behaviours are either time wasters, rude, or unaware of etiquette. These behaviours may result in: no reply from a provider, being blocked or banned, or my refusal to see them again. Bargaining rates / haggling, asking for unsafe practices, pushing boundaries & asking for services not provided, annoying texts - "hi","hey babe", "available now", enquiries which do not answer the basic and simple contact questions, attempting to not pay upfront after arriving for an appointment, asking for personal information, approaching me in public, calling repeatedly, talking about other sex workers, sending dick pics, visiting when sick, not showering thoroughly, anything else deemed being disrespectful or unhygienic.

Is it safe?

Anyone who is sexually active should regularly get tested for STI's. Practice safe sex using condoms. Sex workers, contray to stigma, have LOWER rates of STI's than the general population. Why? Because we are hyper aware of the risks, educate ourselves throughly, and get tested on a reguar basis. CONDOMS: I exisit in the real universe, not the realm of porn. Body slides are my BODY sliding on your BODY. My gentials will not come into contact with your genitals in the massage service. I use condoms as protection for all services and regularly get tested for STIs. No BBJ. No natural services. HEALTH CHECK: I regularly see a dermatologist and have my skin checked for any abnormalities. The massage oil does act as a slight barrier between our skin. However, as in many situations there is always a risk of contamination / infection. I do a skin and gential health check on all clients. Open cuts, rashes, bumps, etc will result in a failed health check. I will offer you a non sexual alternate service. I do not offer a refund as it is your responsibility to be aware of your own health before attending an appointment. TOYS: For prostate massage / G-Spot stimulation / toy play, I put a condom on all toys and use premium silicon or water based lube. My toy collection is high quality and made with body safe non porous materials. Everything is washed thoroughly with toy cleaner and put in a steriliser. LOCATION: My incall is in a discrete and safe neighbourhood. Linens are always freshly laundered and never reused between sessions. That included pillowcases and towels. Due to COVID-19 any high touch area (door handles /faucets/ stairs) are disinfected after every client. Showering with hot water AND soap, using hand santisiter and listerine is required for all clients and myself. SAFE SPACE: I am a nonjudgmental person who is very open to hearing your concerns and desires. Please feel like you can be open and trusting of me. I do have a stellar professional reputation. If you are ever unsure, do your research. Check social media and well known directories. You can ask for references regarding myself from other workers or read my online testimonials. DISCLAIMER: I am NOT a therapist or medical professional. Please seek professional help or any health or psychological concerns. I am limited to what services I can provide during our session and always attempt to operate with maxium transparency.

What ELSE do you do?

Clients are often unaware this type of question to sex workers comes across as patronizing, judgemental, & invasive. I understand you may suffer from foot in mouth disease however, please do NOT ask me for personal information. I understand you may be curious about me or about the sex industry. I enjoy chi chat and breaking the ice. I like to talk about travel and my hobbies; hopefully we can find common ground. No politics, religion, or money talk please! I will never ask you invasive questions such as "Are you married / have a partner?" "What's your real name?" "How much do you make?" Please extend that courtesy to me. Likewise, it is rude to ask "What ELSE do you do?" Someone's choice to work full time or part-time in the sex industry is not your concern. This job is a career path for some and for others transitional. SEX WORK IS WORK. Try not to make assumptions.

What are your hobbies?

I have a wide range of interests and like to be active. I love hiking, snorkelling, basketball, yoga, and cycling. I also enjoy film, travel, art, and reading. I support animal rights and promote a healthy lifestyle in harmony with the Earth. I've travelled all over OZ on weird and wonderful trips. I look forward to connecting with you and possibly opening you to a new adventure in life. X CC

Deposit and Cancellation Policy

~ DEPOSIT & CANCELLATION POLICY ~ Deposits are fully refundable if Courtney Cummings cancels the appointment due to being ill or is unable to attend the appointment. The deposit amount paid toward the booking will be refunded in full within 48 hours (2 days) of her cancellation. The refund will be made in the same way in which the deposit was originally given. If Courtney cancels the appointment due to the client displaying unsafe behaviour (intimidation, manipulation, aggression, requesting unsafe/illegal services, intoxication, etc.), the deposit as well as the booking fee will NOT be refunded. The deposit is forfeit if the client does not provide at least 48hrs notice of cancellation, doesn't attend the appointment (no show), has a change of mind, or if the client is excessively late (20min+). In Perth: If the client gives at least 48hrs advance notice of cancellation or reschedule request, the deposit may be transferred once to an appointment date within 30days at Courtney's discretion. On tour: the deposit is fully refundable if the client gives Courtney at least 7 days advance notice. If given less that 7 days notice, the client may transfer the deposit to an alternate booking time on the same tour. This is at Courtney's discretion and if her schedule allows. Any non-refundable transport, accommodation, or supply costs incurred as a direct result of the booking will not be refundable. NO SHOWS - In the event the client has not paid a deposit yet has a confirmed appointment with Courtney and fails to attend or cancels without notice (less than 2hrs in advance) they are liable for a cancellation fee of $50. This is payable to Courtney via BEEM IT or giftcard within 24hrs. Failure to pay may result in civil action and will be followed up. When you make an appointment, I reserve that time just for you. Other clients may ask for that specific time but it is reserved by your deposit. I will never double book our appointment. If you do not show up or cancel, I have lost time and income. It is also extremely disconcerting when a client obtains an address and does not attend the appointment. Unfortunately, in this industry there is a small percentage of people that ruin it for the majority of genuine clients. These types are classified as time wasters, no shows, address collectors, sometimes dangerous, and generally unsavory people. Making a deposit is the best way to show that you are a genuine client. I understand that "life happens" and you may not be able to attend your appointment. My deposit policy is accommodating of that. If "something has come up" it is respectful to compensate the other person for their time and missed opportunities. The golden rule is to treat others the way you would like to be treated. "Can't you trust me?" / "I'm a good guy! ” "I'm a man of my word." Mutual trust is important. You can research me by checking out my verified profiles, reviews, social media accounts, and asking other SWs about my professional reputation. I would not jeopardize my career and livelihood by “scamming” a potential client. Potential clients are responsible for doing their own due diligence before contacting a provider. Deposits are discrete and anonymous. I will never use or share your data. I will not be able to access your personal or financial information. "It's too difficult / My card is declined / It isn't working/ I don't want to do it!" I provide several methods of deposit. It is highly unlikely all are not working. Please make your appointment in advance so you have time to make a deposit. It is stress free and takes about 5-10 min. "I don't want my partner to find out" / "I don't want an electronic trail." If I ask you for a deposit and you don't want to give one, it is your prerogative to seek an alternative provider suited to your requirements. There are many other private providers as well as parlors - but there is only one Courtney Cummings. If you would like to spend time with me, you must abide to the T&Cs of my business. A common worry is having a transaction recorded on a bank statement. I put a lot of thought into my methods of deposit to avoid leaving an obvious digital trace. Beem It appears as "Beem It refund" on your statement. Coles Gift Card appears as "". I now offer Smart ATM cash deposit or Bank Transfer to a business account. Still not comfortable? Take charge of your own digital trail! If you want to be discrete then the first step is to take care of your own privacy before putting in the onus on your chosen provider. You can purchase a Load & Go debit card from any Australia Post, prepaid mastercard from Aus Post, Visa One loadable gift cards from Officeworks, any supermarket, or petrol station, Quantas Cash Card, etc. You can use these anonymous forms of payment to pay your anonymous deposit. I am a professional and operate as such. I highly recommend you plan in advance and give yourself enough time to calmly make the appropriate arrangements. Think with your big head. Any funds sent to Courtney Cummings without her prior arrangement and/or appointment confirmation will be considered a gift with no obligations.

Massage table or bed?

I have a professional grade wide massage table at my incall which is also used for four hands and bondassage. For longer massages or bookings with certain extras, my posturepedic bed will be used. Outcalls and when on tour, the massage is on a bed.

Abbreviations: A Glossary of Sex Work Terminology

Let's unravel some lingo and translate abbreviations commonly found in sex worker advertisements in Australia. To avoid confusion or conflict, it is important to understand the services and boundaries provided by a sex worker. IF YOU DON'T KNOW, ASK! Terms can be interpreted in a variety of ways depending on the provider. CONSENT IS ALWAYS REQUIRED. Below is a general list of some services that a sex worker may provide (in alphabetical order).
A ANAL PLAY – refers to any kind of external play or penetration of the anus, either by use of finger, tongue, or sex toys. ANAL SEX – penetration of the penis inside the anus, also referred to as Greek. ATM – ass to mouth. Involves acts such as giving oral sex immediately after receiving anal sex, or putting a finger or a vibrator in one’s mouth immediately after anal penetration. B BI TWIN - a doubles booking with two bisexual sex workers. BJ – blow job, oral sex on a penis. BBBJ – bare back blow job. Giving unprotected oral sex on a penis without a condom. BBBJTC - bare back blow job to completion / cumming. BBW – big beautiful woman. A woman who is voluptuous / curvy. BLS – balls licking and sucking. B & D – bondage & discipline. BDSM – bondage domination sadomasochism. BONDAGE – sexual act that involves the tying up or restraining of the partner. BRAZILIAN – bikini wax style that completely removes the pubic hair from the front, middle and rear of the pubic area. A “landing strip” is a small patch of hair sometimes left at the front. BS – body slide. Provider slides their naked body over yours. Does NOT include genital on genital contact. Several types: Front - receiver is face up when provider slides. Back - receiver is face down, Reverse - body slide in the 69 position. C CBT – cock and ball torture. A BDSM sexual activity involving torture or pain affliction to the male genitals. CD – cross dressing. CIM – cum in mouth. CIMWS – cum in mouth with swallow. To ejaculate in the mouth and swallow the fluid. CBJ – covered blow job. Protected oral sex with a condom. COB – cum on body. COF – cum on face. COUGAR – an attractive mature woman. Age threshold is interpreted widely. COSTUMES & ROLE PLAY - wearing fantasy outfits and assuming the roles of characters to heighten sexual excitement. COUPLES – providing sexual services to two people in a relationship. Can be a bisexual or straight couples booking or voyeuristic (watching sexual acts). D DATY - Dining At The Y. Performing oral sex on a vagina; can be with legs spread open to resemble a “Y” shape. DATO – see Rimming. DFK – deep French kissing, kissing using the tongue heavily, french kissing. DINNER COMPANION – a social date in which a provider accompanies a client to share a meal or attend a function. May or may not provide sexual services. DIRTY TALK – using graphic words to heighten sexual pleasure during intimacy. DP – double penetration of the vagina and anus. Can be with 1 person, multiple people, or with toys / fingers. DDP – double digit penetration. Various meanings: one finger in the vagina, one finger in the anus or “fingering / pussy play” with finger(s) in the vagina. DT – deep throat. Oral sex technique which takes the entire length of a penis in one’s mouth. DOGGY STYLE – a sexual position in which someone is penetrated from behind. E EROTIC SENSUAL MASSAGE– a body rub that is intended to sexually stimulate the receiver. F FACIAL – Ejaculating onto someone's face. FBSM – full body sensual massage. FE – female ejaculation during orgasm, “squirting”. FETISH – a need or desire for a specific object, body part, or activity for sexual excitement. FILMING – the film or digital recording of a sexual act. FIRE & ICE – giving oral sex while switching between hot and cold sensations in the provider's mouth. FISTING – the penetration of the whole hand inside the vagina or anus. FK – French kissing, tongue kissing. FOOT FETISH – a pronounced sexual interest and gratification in feet or shoes. FRENCH – oral sex, fellatio. “full french” = without a condom. Can mean french kissing. FS – full service. Interpretations and inclusions widely vary, can mean penetrative sexual intercourse. G GAGGING – a sexual act in which the provider gags or chokes on a penis during oral sex. GFE – girlfriend experience. Interpretations and inclusions widely vary. Can mean an intimate service in which the provider is similar to a girlfriend. May include such services as cuddling, conversation, penetrative sex, kissing, and mutual oral sex. GREEK – penetrative anal sex. GS – golden shower. Urination onto other person. H HAPPY ENDING – hand job after massage. HJ – hand job. HR – hand relief. I ITALIAN – rubbing a penis between the buttocks. L LK– light kissing, usually with a closed mouth. M MILF – mother I’d like to fuck. MFF – male female female threesome. MMF – male male female threesome. MULTIPLE POSITIONS – sex in many different styles and positions. MASTURBATION – sexually arousing one’s self, usually to the point of orgasm. Can be performed with fingers, hands, an object, or a sex toy. MUTUAL MASTURBATION – both parties sexually arousing themselves and / or each other, usually while they watch each other. MUTUAL FRENCH – Both parties will give and reciprocate oral sex. If done at the same time, is referred to as a 69. MUTUAL NATURAL FRENCH – both parties give and receive unprotected oral sex. MSOG – multiple shots on goal. The client may orgasm multiple times in a session. N NATURAL BUSH – unshaven or unwaxed pubic hair. O OWO – oral without a condom. OVERNIGHT – a provider who stays with the client overnight at a hotel or residence. Duration and inclusions vary widely. P PHOTOGRAPHY – the photographing of a sexual act. PNDP– Please no dick pics. PROSTATE MASSAGE – stimulation of the male prostate gland by anal penetration. “G-spot stimulation” can be done with finger or toy. PSE – porn star experience. Interpretations and inclusions widely vary. Can mean a high energy sexual service similar to what is demonstrated in a pornographic film. PUNTER – the client or customer of a sex worker. R ROLE PLAY – assuming the roles of characters to heighten sexual excitement. RIMMING – licking the anus. S SEX TOY - an object or device that is primarily used to facilitate sexual pleasure. SNOWBALLING – transferring semen or cum from one person’s mouth to another. SPANISH – rubbing the penis between breasts, sometimes until climax. SPANKING – slapping another person’s buttocks for the sexual arousal or gratification of either or both parties. SPIT ROASTING – giving oral sex while being penetrated from behind. SQUIRTING – ejaculating fluid from the vagina during orgasm. STRAP ON – a dildo designed to be worn, usually with a harness, to penetrate a sexual partner. STRIP TEASE – an erotic dance in which the provider slowly undresses in a teasing fashion. SW – sex worker. T TEA BAGGING – repeated insertion of testicles into the mouth of a partner. TOY SHOW – a masturbation show by use of sex toys. TROMBONING - an act in which the giver kneels behind the receiver and licks their anus while masturbating the receiver's penis. TTM – testicular tongue massage. W WATER SPORTS – see golden shower. WL – working lady, escort, sex worker.